Self-Respect

You're handsome. You're single. You have a great job. To your mom, aunts, and neighbors it makes no sense...how can a great guy like you still be single? They don't get it.

YOU have a simple explanation for it. Women don't like nice guys. Women like jerks. So as long as you're a nice guy, women are going to conveniently stick you in the "friend zone" within minutes of meeting you...and we all know there's no coming back once you're in the "friend zone..."

But is it because you're too nice?

Or is it because you don't respect yourself?

Male, female...it doesn't matter. In fact, I've watched men pass over "nice girls" for women who treat them badly. Traditionally we've all believed that it falls into the "we always want what we can't have" category but really it goes deeper than that.

It all has to do with YOU respecting YOURSELF.

Somebody who respects himself shows it. He walks with confidence, and when he meets someone new he projects the image that he can take her or leave her. If she wants his company, great...if not, her loss. He'll just move on and find someone who will appreciate him.

Nothing could be sexier than that.

Self-respect. If you don't respect you...how can you expect her to? If you consistently allow a woman to treat you badly, what will happen? she'll keep treating you badly. She'll walk all over you because you've already proven to her you're a doormat. Meanwhile, you'll stand around scratching your head, puzzling over why women always ignore nice guys.

Is it something you're sending out? Is it something you're doing, early on, that lets her know you have no self-respect? Maybe it's a little bit of both. Whatever the case, until you make the decision that you aren't going to be a doormat for women anymore...until you decide, once and for all, that you aren't going to settle for less than you deserve, you'll continue to attract people who walk all over you.

And yes...every bit of this advice applies to women too.

How to Text Right

How to pump her full of curiosity, intrigue, and desire, until she's picking up her phone and thumbing in a message (whether she wanted to or not)

Igniting Feelings of intense chemistry and connection, and has her trusting you.. Making her thinking of you, craving you, and even fantasizing about you.. Desperately waiting for your next message..

Most importantly, these texts quickly get meetups that turn into relationships!

In fact, you can even use these three texts to:

-Text your way out of the friend zone
-Jump-start things back up with a girl that is slipping away (without coming across as needy or desperate)
-Get a girl you just met chasing you, fighting for your attention, working to win you over

Even girls who has been sending icy cold one word responses will suddenly be eager to spend time with you

All because you will be using a very specific sequence of magnetic texts called "The Key Lock Sequence"

When you use these three texts, it's like pushing a key into a lock, turning, and awakening an exciting and fun side of her that she has hidden from all the other guys in her phone!

And the best part is, it works like clock.. "Rinse, Wash, Repeat" on any girl you meet, so you'll never struggle with what to write to a girl AGAIN!

The secret I'm about to reveal, you can even pull your phone out and use it immediately..

You may be thinking you have tried it all, and seen it all.. but you have never seen anything like this before...

And I promise, one tip is particular is going to shock you...

Before I get to that, I'd like to expose a dangerous "Myth of Attraction" that's stopping you from scoring more women right now..

"Attraction is Black or White"
That a woman either wants you or she doesn't..
She's attracted to you or she's not

But that's NOT how attraction works!

A woman's opinion of you, can change by the year, month, week, day and even by the hour!

The good news is, that even if you didn't make a stellar first impression, you can still win her over and get her wanted you..

Even if you're not her "type" of she only sees you as a "friend"

Even if you've sent her a horribly embarrassing text

And even if she's dating someone else and acts like you don't even exist

However, be aware that, just because a girl has given you her number, told you to call her, or has even been out on a date with you, DOES NOT automatically mean you will ever see her again

When she handed you her number, she did not sign a social contract agreeing to go out with you.. It just mean she was interested or attracted enough at the moment to give it to you..

In fact, when a woman hands you her number, she secretly wants you to win..
She wants you to flirt with her and she's hoping you won't mess things up!

Just don't make the fatal mistake of thinking that once a woman gives you her number, it's game over: you win!

The game has just actually began! There's a window of opportunity that begins closing the minute she gives you her number

Yes she was interested or attracted enough to give it to you.. but time is ticking like sand running through the hour glass

Women EXPECT things to happen quick when there is chemistry.. They expect to get swept away!
so the long it takes to get her out, the more she starts thinking there must not be anything there.. She might even begin to backward rationalize and start finding reasons you're not worth meeting up with and she starts getting annoyed at even the slightest mistakes like

-sending texts that come on too strong or appear needy
-sending her lame, boring, just another average guy texts
- or trying to send her something witty  that she just doesn't get
This is when she seems to go from hot, to cold, very quickly, losing interest and fizzling out..

As the window is closing, all the time texting back and forth is murdering your chances

In fact, you have a limited number of texts before this window closes for good and you never get her out
If you're not sending her the right texts, you're just spinning your wheels, and some other guy will get her out and win her heart

This is all base on experience

Now, if you're like I was, then you have probably experienced one of the two common scenarios..

The first: the Cinderella Effect
- You meet a girl at a bar, or a party, and she's totally into you and seems like  atotal sweetheart THE NIGHT YOU MET.. Maybe you'd even start imagining a relationship with her.. Planning future dates in your mind.. Bragging about her to your friends..
But, when you try to contact her afterwards, she turns into something else..

Whether she turns mean, cold, disinterested or just non-responsive, she's displaying the "Cinderella Effect"

And it feels downright humiliating when she doesn't respond..

Pulling your phone out of your pocket every five minutes checking to see if you missed her message.. You can almost imagine her laughing about your text with her friends! and then it's like she disappears off the face of the earth.. And you can't figure out where you messed up or what went wrong!

And the weird thing is, this is actually almost better than the next scenario. because at least you can take a hint and move on

-Scenario two I call:
 “The Texting Goofball”
This is where you turn into a “one trick pony“ always trying “too hard” to make her laugh and entertain her…
You think you’re really getting somewhere… She seems to LOL at everything you write… Even sends YOU random texts asking how you are…
Then Days, Weeks, Months go by playing “Textual Grab-ass” with her… Until you finally realize you’re just her “Text Buddy”…
And she NEVER wants to actually meet up…

So the big question is, how do you go from getting a woman's phone number to getting her out on a date?

How do you go from getting a woman’s phone number to getting her out on a date?
How do you use your phone to turn her on?
How do you do that…
Without losing her interest to another guy…
Without the attraction fizzling out after a few boring texts…
And without accidentally texting your way into the friend zone…
And more importantly…
Once you’ve hung out with her…
How do you continue to amplify the attraction, leave her wanting more, and have her eagerly anticipating the next time she’ll  wrap her legs around you…
All by sending a few simple texts from your cell phone?

To answer those questions I need to reveal a few simple truths about “Chemistry and Attraction” no one has told you before…
And show you how to “Jump Start” the spark that takes a woman who’s , lukewarm, indifferent or even losing interest… and suddenly has her eager to spend time with you…

Remember how I told you the Window of Opportunity is quickly closing?
The reason the window of opportunity is closing is because the emotion she felt towards you is fading… and you’re losing her attention.

Critical Point #1:
Emotions =  Attention
Any time you create an emotional state in a woman… you momentarily have her attention.

And the Window opens back up…
It gets even better…
Emotions also act as an “Attraction Anchor”
And re-ignite the “original” attraction she felt… (even if it has already started to slip away…)
You ever have a song start playing on the radio and bring back a flood of emotions… and suddenly that song has every ounce of your attention?
Now If you’ve sent her an “emotional text”… then any time she pulls out her phone you can get the SAME EXACT REACTION…

When a woman decides that she wants to meet up for a date..
I can pretty much guarantee it was not some “logical” decision she made based on careful thinking…
It was an emotional reaction she had to the text you sent…
Your goal is to spark an emotion, get her attention and turn that attention into a meet up as quickly as possible.
So what are the three texts that she’s practically powerless against?
In order to capture a woman attention, and create a “mental monopoly” where she can’t stop herself from meeting up with you…
She needs to receive three specific text messages…

1.  First, you send her an “emotional” text that stops her dead in her tracks and captures her attention and as her anticipating what comes next…
This text shows her that you’re different and exciting, and gets her seeing you as an attractive, fun, charismatic guy, and draws out her FLIRTATIOUS SIDE setting the tone for all your future interactions…
2.  Next, you need to bond with her in a way that has her imagining spending time with you in the future… And feeling an  “emotional connection” that goes beyond a “casual” flirtation…
This text shows her that she’s NOT just some random number in your phone… it lets her know that you “get her” and has her associating these warm good feelings to you…
3.  And finally, you plant the idea of being with you in her mind, so that she begins to crave and imagine it…
This text shows her that you’re the type of guy who makes it happen…  has her desperate to spend time with you…  And easily transitions to a meet up.

It is NOT your ability to spend days texting her interesting things, or convincing her you're a good guy who really likes her.. BUT it's your ability to monopolize her attention, anchor a strong emotional connection and send out texts that act like magnets drawing her closer toward you

And because time is always a factor, you need to do all of this in just three texts.. Most guys would make the mistake of thinking the more texts I send, the more of her attention I'll get.. I used to make that mistake too.. Hoping to stay on her mind I'd continually texts her things like:

"How was your day?"
"What are you up to?"
"Hope you got home safe"
"hey"
"Have fun tonight"

Not one of these texts creates any sort of emotion.. In fact, these texts would actually annoy her.. Keeping her attention is not about bombarding her phone with messages.. and it's also not about never texting her or following the "3 Day Rule" and waiting a specified amount of time before texting her again. As a result, your window of opportunity is closing and nothing will kill your chances faster than going M.I.A on her

Getting her attention is not about sending her a lot of texts.. Or following some stupid rules.. It's about sending her the RIGHT texts..

Here's what so great about the key lock sequence.. You can use it to

Quickly get a date with a girl you just met

Turn things around on a girl who is losing interest

Even spark things back up with a girl that got away

Because it can be adjusted for just any situation, and allows you to put girls on "texting auto-pilot".. This means never having to stand there like an idiot with your phone in your hand, with no clue on what to write.. You just sit back and let the sequence do the work.. By displaying this "Attractive Communication" it causes her to make a snap, shot judgment that you're a fun, cool guy and allows you to capitalize on this "attention" as quickly as possible and get her out while the pump is primed

Why Not Be Not Single? How to Make Time for Romance

Connecting with your partner emotionally and physically is a soothing balm for our frazzled lives.. A foot massage and a sympathetic ear give us the chance to recharge our selves and our love lives.. But after a long day of putting out fires at work,handling numerous phone calls, writing up that report, shuttling the kids back and forth, cooking, doing laundry, walking the dog, etc., etc.- the last thing on your mind is romance.. With so much competing for our attention it is easy to focus on everything but each other.. So, how do you find the time to connect with your sweetie? Make intimacy a habit just like your morning coffee and bagel by adding it into your daily routine..

1. Compliment each other on the things you like and appreciate about each other every day.. Let your partner know that he/she is in your thoughts and in your heart..

2. Create your own simple rituals that show that you care about each other.. Find a way to connect during the day with a note, a phone call, or an email..

3. Listen without giving advice, taking responsibility, or trying to "fix" things.. Let your mate enjoy the luxury of knowing that you are really listening.. Only give feedback if your mate asks for it..

4. Talk to each other about what's going on in your lives besides the day-to-day running of the household or office talk.. Share what you are feeling..

5. Hold each other.. A simple hug can do wonders..

6. Instead of the standard, "How was your day?" exchange, pick at least one good thing about your day and share it with each other..

7. Give each other a kiss when coming and going..

8. Laugh together - often..

9. Plan a regular "date" night once a week..

10. Say the words "I love you"..

You may be thinking that your relationship is the one thing in your hectic life that is stress-free, so why change things? While there is a certain level of comfort and predictability in a long-term relationship, the danger is that you may stop listening and may stop "being there" for your relationship.. Knowing your mate inside and out can also give both of you the illusion that you can read each other's minds.. And this can lead to misunderstandings which, when piled on top of each other, can lead to relationship disasters..

Talk to each other.. Listen.. Ask questions.. Don't assume.. As you continue to grow and change as an individual, so will your relationship.. Keep the lines of communication open by not tuning each other out.. This doesn't just apply to verbal communication either.. If your mate feels more like a roommate than a lover, perhaps you should incorporate more "togetherness" into your daily routines.. Love is in the little things, in the day-to-day details of our lives..

Good luck everyone ;)

S.O.S

Told you I made dinner plans
For you and me and no one else
That don't include your crazy friends
Well I'm done
With awkward situation's empty conversations

Oh This is an S.O.S.
Don't wanna second guess,
This is the bottom line
It's true
I gave my all for you,
now my heart's in two
And I can't find the other half

It's like I'm walking on broken glass,
Better believe I bled
It's a call I'll never get

So this is where the story ends
A conversation on IM
Well I'm done
With texting,
Sorry for the miscommunication

Oh This is an S.O.S.
Don't wanna second guess,
This is the bottom line
It's true
I gave my all for you,
now my heart's in two
And I can't find the other half

It's like I'm walking on broken glass,
better believe I bled
It's a call I'll never get
Next time I see you
I'm giving you a high five
'cause hugs are over rated, just FYI

Oh This is an S.O.S.
Don't wanna second guess,
This is the bottom line
It's true
I gave my all for you,
Now my heart's in two

(yeah)

Oh This is an S.O.S.
Don't wanna second guess,
This is the bottom line
It's true
I gave my all for you,
Now my heart's in two
And I can't find the other half

It's like I'm walking on broken glass,
Better believe I bled
It's a call I'll never get

Chiisana Koi No Uta..

In this wide universe, there is
A big world in a blue earth
A small memory of love will reach
You who are living in a small island

Time has passed since I met you
The letter with my piled up feelings increases
Without us realizing, it is already echoing between us
Sometimes we’re full of intensity,
sometimes we’re full of sadness

These feelings echoes distantly
This gentle love song will change the world

Look, the person who is important to you
Is right beside you
I just want you to receive
This echoing love song
Listen, listen, listen to this echoing love song

You’ve realized even when we walked
In the dark, the moonlight will shine on us
I won’t let go of you hand
I swear that these strong feelings will last for eternity

In the depths of forever, I’ll definitely say
These same words without any change of feelings
Even if it’s still not enough, it’ll change into tears
And it’ll change into joy that I can’t put into words
I’ll just hold you, I’ll just hold you

Look, the person who is important to you
Is right beside you
I just want you to receive
This echoing love song
Listen, listen, listen to this echoing love song

If it’s a dream don’t wake up, if it’s a dream don’t wake up
The time I’ve spent with you will become an everlasting star

Look, the person who is important to you
Is right beside you
I just want you to receive
This echoing love song

Look, the person who is important to you
Is right beside you
I just want you to receive
This echoing love song
Listen, listen, listen to this echoing love song

The Calling

Can you hear this voice?
I've been calling that, always,
From deep within my heart

Would you, all alone, let another lonely one be next to you
Because together it's not lonely, it's twoly
See, you're not alone any longer

Just because there's no one next to me
Doesn't mean that I'm lonely
For someone to notice this pain
That heart must have surely cried

Right now, we'll crush to bits
The fortress of our limitless sadness
I'll take you with me

Got it? I'm running through at full power
To where you're waiting, left behind,
In the place of tears
I believe in you, with burning passion
So, come to me!

Future..

There are no boring days
The future looks so exciting
Every day is full or surprises
The hurdles are so high
You can't get over them with half-assed feelings

When you find out what's happening
When you take the effort to answer
It can't be hard...
The bad times aren't useless

Eternity lasts forever
With this fleeting feelings
And the sky splits apart your illusion
Believe without looking away
And let's go laughing all the way..

Hidamari (Sunny Place)

Kimi ga kureta kotobatachi wa
Suteki da kedo nazo mo ooi kara
Itsumo hitorikiri no toki
Sono imi ni kizuku

Ato ni natte yasashisa o shiru
Arigatou o ii ni oikakeru
Nanoni kimi wa sono saki o susundeite
Oitsukenai mama de

Hikari ga sasu akarui hi no hou e hashirou
Kitto soko de kimi ga mieru ne
Yami no naka o susumu hazu ga nai

Taiyou no kakudo de kage ni naru yokogao o
Mamorinukeru kurai takaku tsuyoku terashitai yo
Shinayaka na hidamari no you ni

Kimi ga warai furimuita toki
Kuraku natta soba no hoo ni wa
Umaku keshita tsumori demo
Namida no sen oritatamareteita

Damatta mama mune no hako no naka ni shimaou
Sotto shiteteagetai koto nara
Tatta hitotsu dekiru sakimawari

Hikari to kagetachi ga chirachira suru komorebi
Tsutsundeshimaitai tanoshii kanashii dono omoi mo
Atataka na hidamari no you ni

Egao no o o hiite kimi wa mata sono saki e
Tsutsundeshimaitai ureshii kuyashii kono omoi mo

Taiyou no kakudo de kage ni naru yokogao o
Mamorinukeru kurai takaku tsuyoku terashitai yo
Shinayaka na hidamari no you ni

Hanarete mo yorisoeru kokoro

The words you gave me
They were wonderful, but cryptic all the same
It’s always when I’m all alone
That the meaning sinks in

Only later on do I realize your kindness
I run after you to say thank you
But you've already proceeded ahead
Before I could catch up with you

I’ll run to a bright and shining day
I know I’ll see you there
You couldn't possibly tread into the darkness

The angle of the sun causes shadows to cast upon your profile
I want to shine high and bright, just enough to protect it
Like a nice and sunny place

When you smiled and turned your face away
Despite your best efforts to hold they back
Tears trickled down
The darkened side of your cheek

I’ll silently tuck it away into a box in my heart
If I wish to leave you be
Then all that can be done is to beat you to it

Shadows and light flicker under the eaves of the trees
I want to embrace all the running emotions, the joy and the sorrow
Like a warm and sunny place

Leaving a trail of smiles behind you, you continue onwards
I want to embrace this feeling of being torn between happiness and regret

The angle of the sun causes shadows to cast upon your profile
I want to shine high and bright, just enough to protect it
Like a nice and sunny place

Though separated, my heart lies close to yours

Omamori Himari - Hidamari

きみが くれた 言葉たちは
すてき だけど 謎も 多いから
いつも ひとりきりのとき
その意味に 気づく

あとに なって やさしさを知る
ありがとうを 言いに 追いかける
なのに きみは その先を 進んでいて
追いつけないままで

光が射す 明るい日のほうへ 走ろう
きっと そこできみが みえるね
闇のなかを 進むはずがない

太陽の角度で 陰になる横顔を
まもりぬけるくらい 高く 強く 照らしたいよ
しなやかな ひだまりのように

きみが わらい ふりむいたとき
くらくなったがわの 頬には
うまく 消した つもりでも
涙の線 折りたたまれていた

だまったまま 胸の箱のなかに しまおう
そっと しててあげたい ことなら
たった1つ できる 先まわり

光と影たちが ちらちらする 木もれ陽
つつんでしまいたい 楽しいかなしい どの想いも
暖かな ひだまりのように

笑顔の尾をひいて きみはまた その先へ
つつんでしまいたい 嬉しいくやしい この想いも

太陽の角度で 陰になる横顔を
まもりぬけるくらい 高く 強く 照らしたいよ
しなやかな ひだまりのように

離れても よりそえる こころ

Thoughts About Love...

Love is a cycle..

When you love, you get hurt, you hate..

When you hate, you try to forget..

When you try to forget, you start missing..

And when you start missing, eventually you'll fall in love again...

Himitsu (Secret)

You see...
It seems I've been wounded, yet the words I truly desired..
To make me fulfilled, were living in the depths of my heart..
I'm troubled..

I have only a bit more than my body's warmth as my pulse quickens in the lukewarm wind..
Speaking of a distant future, I've seen that face before..
Together we can travel to the interior of my dreams..
It's like... this is each our body..

The pistol known as love is shooting mid-way to my heart..
Tactics like this, I can't grasp the meaning of such knowledge..
The trigger known as love is drawn, shooting at my icy heart..
Filling me with your love all the way to my fingertips..

You see...
It seems I'm always forgotten, like a meaningless silver coin one receives..
But a dully lighted gem can progress to shining, with drops of tears..
Just knowing me, that was a secret..

I've lost everything, and hunched over with a sigh, I've thawed in the dawn..
It's of no use to be on this path..
Yet in my hand is a shiny quarter dollar..
My feelings have been freed, as I grasp tightly to my courage..
I smile at the canopy that has been opened in my trembling heart..

My audacious lips are now held shut.....

I give to you only warmth, shooting mid-way from my heart..
Tactics like this, I can't grasp the meaning of such knowledge..
The trigger known as love is drawn, shooting out tainted blossoms..
And once more I will break down and give you a much-prized kiss..

Love

I think the video says it all :)

Quote

“If you ask what is the single most important key to longevity, I would have to say it is avoiding worry, stress and tension. And if you didn't ask me, I'd still have to say it.”- George F. Burns

It's true.. I'd still say it eventually even if I didn't say it before..

“I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.”

Just One Last Dance...

Can I have..just one last dance?

Just one last dance.... Oh baby... Just one last dance

We meet in the night in the Spanish cafe
I look in your eyes just don't know what to say
It feels like I'm drowning in salty water
A few hours left 'til the sun's gonna rise
Tomorrow will come an it's time to realize
Our love has finished forever

How I wish to come with you (wish to come with you)
How I wish we make it through

Chorus:
Just one last dance
Before we say goodbye
When we sway and turn round and round and round
It's like the first time
Just one more chance
Hold me tight and keep me warm
Cause the night is getting cold
And I don't know where I belong
Just one last dance

The wine and the lights and the Spanish guitar
I'll never forget how romantic they are
But I know, tomorrow I'll lose the one I love

There's no way to come with you
It's the only thing to do

Just one last dance, just one more chance, just one last dance

Something Interesting..

Hatred.. not harted.. It sums up as the Law Of Attraction.. Whatever you give out, you get back..








If you feel sad, or lonely, or even there's something bothering you.. I'll be willing to listen as long as you're willing to tell..


Love is about giving without expecting anything in return..

Just For You..

They always question why I'm in love with you..
They said, I can get someone better than you..

And every single time, I just smiled.. =)

Maybe you're not as pretty as other girls..


Sometimes you're harsh..

Sometimes your temper comes with no warning..


Sometimes I got a headache trying to tend to your attitude..


But nonetheless,


Even though you're not the prettiest, you never question my looks.. You said I'm the most charming guy in the world..


No matter how harsh you are, you still cry when watching Korean movies..


Yes sometimes your temper is unpredictable, but your cuddliness are still there


Even though you're stubborn at times, your love, only I can feel them..



For what reason do we tell the happiness we share?
Let them say what they want.. Ignore them..
I know the one I love better.. =)

Tangga - Terbaik Untukmu

All the MVs on youtube regarding this song have been taken down due to some copyright claims.. So if you wanna listen to this song, search for it in 4shared.. And here's a translated version of the lyrics..

I've realized by now..
We are getting further apart..
I managed to think about it..
You're the one who wanted it..
Away from my hugs..

Oh Now I've realized..
This is my fault..
I don't want to be late and regret this..

Forgive me when I always..
Make you annoyed and hate me..
I did all those things..
Just to make you happy..

Maybe I didn't quite understand..
How to show what I meant..
I was just trying to be.. The best for you...

I want you always be here with me..
Don't go..
Give me a chance..
For me to prove..
Determination of my love..

To you.. The one I'm missing so much...

A Kiss? Why Do We Kiss?

Whether we use it as an informal greeting or an intensely romantic gesture, kissing is one of those ingrained human behaviors that seems to defy explanation..

A kiss isn't just a kiss! The lip-to-lip contact may have been passed on through evolution, not only as a necessary means of survival, but also as a general way to promote social bonding and as an expression of love..

Now, it’s believed that kissing helps transfer critical information, rather than just meat bits.. The kissing we associate with romantic courtship may help us to choose a good mate, send chemical signals, and foster long-term relationships.. All of this is important in evolution’s ultimate goal—successful procreation..

Kissing allows us to get close enough to a mate to assess essential characteristics about them, none of which we’re consciously processing.. Part of this information exchange is most likely facilitated by pheromones, chemical signals that are passed between animals to help send messages..

Researchers found that women didn’t just chose their favorite scent randomly.. They preferred the scent of man whose major histocompatibility complex (MHC)—a series of genes involved in our immune system—was different from their own.. Having a different MHC means less immune overlap and a better chance of healthy, robust offspring.. Kissing may be a subtle way for women to assess the immune compatibility of a mate, before she invests too much time and energy in him..

Although common in courtship, females put more importance on kissing, and most would never have sex without kissing first.. Since females across species are often the choosier ones when it comes to mate selection, these differences in kissing behavior make sense.. Men are also more likely to initiate French kissing and researchers hypothesize that this is because saliva contains testosterone, which can increase libido.. Researchers also think that men might be able to pick up on a woman’s level of estrogen, which is a predictor of fertility..

Kissing isn’t all mating practicality; it also feels good.. That’s because kissing unleashes a host of feel-good chemicals, helping to reduce stress and increase social bonding.. The longer the couples had been in a relationship, the farther their levels dropped..

It could be that women need more than a kiss to stimulate attachment and bonding.. Therefore, kissing plays a role not only in mate selection, but also in bonding.. Kissing is involved in the three main types of attraction humans have: sex drive, romantic love, and attachment.. Thus, evolved to help on all three fronts..

Whether we live in a place where kissing is reserved for close acquaintances, or somewhere where a casual greeting means a one, two, or three cheeker, one thing does remain highly consistent: the side to which people turn while kissing.. It’s almost always to the right.. Twice as many adults turn their heads to the right rather than the left when kissing..

And now, here comes to great part..

One of the best things about kissing, however, is that we don’t have to think about any of this.. Just close eyes, pucker up, and let nature takes its course..

A new chapter..

Hmm.. When I realize it.. I've been changing phones quite a lot over the last few years.. But most of the time, it's due to a "burial of memories"..

From Sony K770i

To a black Sony C510




To a Sony C702




To a white Sony C510.. (As of this moment, I started using 2 phones which is C702 and C510)





And now changed my Sony C702 into a Sony W995.. (Yes I've lost this phone once and I bought another one just like it...)

Should I or should I not?.. My C510.. has approximately 2000+ messages from her.. The memories we share.. I've always wanted to share everything, yes EVERYTHING, that happened to me with her.. Amongst all of my friends, even the ones who knew me for a loooonnggg time, she is the only one who knew about my deepest, darkest secret.. The changing point that occurred in my life.. And yes, I really miss texting her, annoys her, and most of importantly, I miss making her smile..

I really really wanted to make things right again between us.. But I can only do that if she wanted me to.. Until that time comes.................

To you.. Yes.. YOU..

Slumbering in my heart..
A tiny, tiny wound go unnoticed..
Flooding from the gap..
Your name, strong and gentle eyes, fingers, and hair made me come to realize..
That I could meet you..
Talk to you..
Started wishing I could touch you, before I realized it..
Emotions aroused, they can't be stopped..
So even if I trip, my heart will run like the wind..
I fell in love with your profile..
And I'd feel so broken-hearted...
I really really love you..