Burden

If you, by any chance, feels that being in a relationship only burdens yourself, then why should you be in one right now?


In other words, you does not see the benefits of being in a relationship, nor have the attitude to be in one

You Only Have Ten Seconds to Show You’re a Somebody

The exact moment that two humans lay eyes on each other has awesome potency.. The first sight of you is a brilliant holograph.. It burns its way into your new acquaintance’s eyes and can stay
emblazoned in his or her memory forever..

First impressions are indelible. Why? Because in our fast-paced, information-overload world of multiple stimuli bombarding us every second, people’s heads are spinning. They must form quick judgments to make sense of the world and get on with what they have to do. So, whenever people meet you, they take an instant mental snapshot. That image of you becomes the data they deal with for a very long time.



In other words, you must remember.. Not everyone have the time to get to know you.. So be the best person you could ever be, and be proud of it :)

Rational Pt 1

Rational.. The ability to reason.. How do you know that you are rational?

Reason is a term that refers to the capacity human beings have to make sense of things, to establish and verify facts, and to change or justify practices, institutions and beliefs.. (taken from Wikipedia

To know that you are rational, you must first seek curiosity.. The burning desire to know is definitely better than any solemn vow to pursue the truth.. If by any chance, you believe that you already know, or you do not wish to know, then your questioning will be purposeless and your skills without direction.. Curiosity seeks to annihilate itself.. How glorious mystery is to be solved, and soon after, become mystery no more.. Thus, be wary of those who speak of being open-minded and modestly confess their ignorance for there is time to confess, and to relinquish your ignorance..

Personality test through colors..

Main components

You are 42 % extrovert and 58 % introvert.

Independently of any order of importance :

You are able to have an in-depth thinking, you think before acting, and you know how to communicate your knowledge.

You are also attentive and cautious, you take into account the needs of others before setting up the defined goals.

Finally you are strong-willed and active, your actions are determined by your own will, by the goals you settled for yourself, and by your need to act and to move forward.

Your understanding of your environment :

At first, at 38%, you are focused on the facts and on the reality, and your decisions are determined by your perception of facts.

Then, at a ratio of 31%, you are centered on your thoughts and your actions are determined by your knowledge and your experience.

Finally, at 30%, you are attached to moral values and feelings, and you have an emotional relation with the environment.

How you assert yourself :

In your relations with others, your actions and behaviour are determined by your sensibility and that of your partner at a ratio of 55%. Then you are driven at 44% by own will and personal goals.

Your will power 44
Your sensibility 55

Also, your point of view and your decision-making are motivated by your inner conviction at 61%. Dialogue and exchange of views with others are taken into account at 38%.

Your ideas 61
Your relations 38

Finally, your inspiration and your creativity, your artistic or spiritual impulse have an influence of 56%. Also your family and personal ties interfere at 43%.

Your inspiration 56
Your family 44

The qualities that characterize your personality at this time :

Your insights.
you are thoughtful and deep, you think before getting into action and you know how to communicate your knowledge.
at 22 %

Your thinking.
you are attuned to others and you show a good emotional intelligence, which allow you to give support to people.
at 22 %

Your intellectual performance.
You are intellectual and intelligent, you wonder and you inquire before taking any action and setting your values.
at 19 %

Your emotional intelligence.
you are thoughtful and capable of listening to others, you take into account the needs of others before setting up the defined objectives.
at 18 %

Your energy.
you are strong-willed and active, your actions are determined by your own will, by the goals you settled to yourself, and by your need to act and move ahead.
at 17 %

Finally, you are creative, you know how to see beauty, you are intuitive and your inspiration comes from the inside, you are a creative person, with always new ideas, and you know how to apply them.

7 Days..

inspired by a movie I just watched..

Monday I'm waiting..
Tuesday, I'm still waiting to see.. whether if you are fine..
Wednesday, you're still not here.. Not in the morning nor later..
Thursday is also empty..
Friday, Saturday, and Sunday..
None of the day that I don't miss you..
None of the day that you will come back..
to be in our old days..

The day that I met you..
The day that I was close to you..
The day that we held hands..
The day that I loved you..
The day that I spoke to you..
The day that you listened to me..
How long will it be like this.. I don't know..
How many months or years..
How many billions of our past memory..
I never don't miss you..

I've... learned...

I've learned-

that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned-

that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.

I've learned-

that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned-

that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned-

that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned-

that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.

I've learned-

that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something.

I've learned-

that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do.

I've learned-

that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned-

that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned-

that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned-

that you can keep going long after you can’t.

I've learned-

that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned-

that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned-

that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned-

that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned-

that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned-

that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned-

that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned-

that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned-

that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I've learned-

that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned-

that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned-

that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

I've learned-

that your family won’t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren’t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren’t biological.

I've learned-

that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned-

that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I've learned-

that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned-

that a rich person is not the one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.

I've learned-

that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I've learned-

that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I've learned-

that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I've learned-

that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I've learned-

that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I've learned-

that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I've learned-

that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I've learned-

that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

I've learned-

that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings, and standing up for what you believe.

I've learned-

that people will forget what you said, and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

I've... learned...

I've learned-

that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned-

that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.

I've learned-

that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned-

that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned-

that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned-

that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.

I've learned-

that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something.

I've learned-

that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do.

I've learned-

that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned-

that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned-

that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned-

that you can keep going long after you can’t.

I've learned-

that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned-

that either you control your attitude or it controls you

.

I've learned-

that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned-

that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned-

that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned-

that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned-

that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned-

that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned-

that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I've learned-

that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned-
that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned-

that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

I've learned-

that your family won’t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren’t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren’t biological.

I've learned-

that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned-

that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I've learned-

that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned-

that a rich person is not the one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.

I've learned-

that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I've learned-

that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I've learned-

that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I've learned-
that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I've learned-

that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I've learned-

that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I've learned-

that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I've learned-

that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

I've learned-

that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings, and standing up for what you believe.

I've learned-

that people will forget what you said, and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

"it"

one.. mentioned it to me.. 

one.. showed it to me.. 

one.. taught it to me..

one.. perfected it for me.. 

but nonetheless, now, 

I have no one to share it with..

Online meeting..

Have this actually happened to you?

(Read frame by frame)

It makes sense.. Sometimes we wish that we have someone to share special moments together.. And somehow, the dream can be too good to be true..

17032011...

2 more days.. and it's gonna be that day again.. Sigh..

Love is a madness

Love is a temporary madness; it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision.. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part.. Because this is what love is.. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of eternal passion.. That is just being in love, which any fool can do.. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.. Those that truly love have roots that grow towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, they find that they are one tree and not two..

~Louis de Bernieres

Choosing Your Dream..

Yeah.. The topic of today would be, choosing your dream..

Can we really choose our dream? It is even possible?

Actually, it is possible.. Every once in a while you wind up in a dream but somehow recognize it as a dream, and you may have found yourself able to pretty much program the dream to your specifications..

1. Keep a Dream Journal
   As soon as you wake up from a dream, write down every little thing you can remember about it. Supposedly by writing it down, your brain recognizes certain patterns that only occur in a dream (since most dreams are immediately forgotten) and if they are on paper, you can recall them easily..
   

Did you know, upon waking up from your sleep, after 5 minutes, 50% of your dream will be forgotten.. And after 10 minutes, 90% of them..

2. Think about exactly what you want to dream right before you fall asleep.. Makes sense.. For instance you've probably fallen asleep watching MythBusters before and immediately dreamed you were flying through the air, using a giant version of Jamie's mustache as a hang glider..
   
   
3. The best time to have a lucid dream is either right before you regularly wake up, or right after.. Studies have shown that more people have lucid dreams when they take a nap shortly after they first wake up in the morning..
   

Obviously the big difference between a dream and real life is that if the Hamburglar came bursting out of your refrigerator right now and started screaming at you in Vietnamese, your first thought would be "This is a strange and unusual event that is occurring right now, and I should question my perceptions." If the same thing happens in a dream, you just go with it..

In a dream state, your mind mostly loses the ability to criticize anything that's happening because dreaming just doesn't involve the critical part of your brain.. You're all worried that you're at work in your underwear, and don't even blink at the fact that your boss is a dragon who speaks in the voice of your old middle school gym coach..

But if you change your mental state ever so slightly, that critical part of your brain can keep functioning even while in dreamland..

Personality test...

Advanced Global Personality Test Results Extraversion |||||||||||||||| 70% Stability |||||||||||| 43% Orderliness |||||||||||| 50% Accommodation |||||||||||||||| 63% Intellectual |||||||||||||||| 70% Interdependence |||||||||||| 50% Mystical |||||||||||||||||| 80% Materialism |||||||||||||| 60% Narcissism |||||||||||| 50% Adventurousness |||||||||||||||||| 80% Work ethic |||||||||||||||| 70% Conflictseeking |||||||||||||||||||| 90% Need to dominate |||||||||||||||| 70% Romantic |||||||||||||||||| 80% Avoidant |||||||||| 40% Anti-authority |||||||||||||| 60% Wealth |||||||||||||||| 70% Dependency |||||||||||||||| 70% Change averse |||| 20% Cautiousness |||||||||||||| 60% Individuality |||||||||||||||| 70% Sexuality |||||||||||| 50% Peter pancomplex |||||||||| 40% Histrionic |||||||||||||| 60% Vanity |||||||||||| 50% Artistic |||||||||||||||| 70% Hedonism || 10% Physicalfitness |||||||||||||| 60% Religious || 10% Paranoia |||||||||| 40% Hypersensitivity |||||||||||| 43% Indie |||||| 30%

Take Free Advanced Global Personality Test
personality test by similarminds.com

according to the result... i'm a..mystical conflict-seeking person? whoaa

Life..

Lifelong I lived..
The life of another..
For just one moment..
Let me live as I..

Give me some sunshine..
Give me some rain..
Give me another chance..
I wanna grow up once again..

Blaming

Do u realize that.. people always blame another in events where they are powerless to change how it goes? For example, the decrease of morality in people nowadays.. They blame it on Valentine's Day.. Such is the attitude of those who are in power within political ladder..

Rather than banning a particular day, and raising objections and oppositions towards it.. Shouldn't they focus more on reeducating and improving the morals within people nowadays? To ban a specific day, just because it's not an Islamic practice, is just.. idiotic and childish..

What is Valentine's Day? V day, in short, is traditionally a day on which lovers express their love for each other by presenting flowers, offering confectionery, and sending greeting cards (known as "valentines").. The day first became associated with romantic love in the circle of Geoffrey Chaucer in the High Middle Ages, when the tradition of courtly love flourished..

Even without the Valentine's Day, will the social problems decrease? I don't think so.. V Day is just an excuse.. Immoral people will keep on doing immoral things.. Compared to a day, throughout the whole year, how many social issues occurred, involving illicit activities?

So, just because it's not an Islamic practice, they decide to ban it? I mean.. How immature can they be? Rather than striking at a cover, why not they take things more seriously, and strike where it greatly matters?

Please, open your eyes.. Stop being so damn conservative..

Biological Perspective...

How could we possibly understand any of our behavior, thoughts, or actions without knowing something about the incredible organs that allow us to act, think, and react? If we can understand how the brain, the nerves and the glands interact to control feelings, thoughts, and behavior, we can begin to truly understand the complex organism called a human being...

Understanding a human mind.. In other words, psychology.. What is it actually about? How does it work? The study of a human mind..

Ego

It's funny how I heard there are people would address me as desperate, Casanova or whatever crap.. They're all nonsense! Anyway, so what? I don't mind.. Call me names all they want and I'll just laugh along :)

Back to the topic.. Why do I keep hanging out with different women? It's simple, really.. I simply ENJOY their company.. Heck.. Why the hell would I go out with them if I don't feel like it.. I'm not one who toys around with another feelings as well..

There's a big difference between guy-guy talk and guy-girl talk.. Usually when a guy is talking to another guy, the ego-meter rises up.. Not every single guy out there can accept sensitive issues or relationship talks.. They need to present their "manliness" all the time.. To me, that's where they're wrong.. Putting up a block, or a mask, can sometimes be a nuisance.. People will have the tendency to mistreat or misinterpret you.. No point.. Those around you only accepted you for who you're acting to be.. Not who you really are.. Google it up.. Hypocrite vs Compromise..

What I've written below is some of the points I took out from a book, which has some interesting points for talking with women...

The basics.. For starters, you need to actually LIKE women.. How can you expect them to like you if you don't really like them? And I'm not talking about physical interaction.. You need to like how they talk, how they act and especially what they are.. You have to pretty much looking for the best in women..

Listen guys, you can't be going around saying they're gold diggers, they're all liars, they're going to cheat on me anyway.. Women follow your lead.. If you believe them to be that way, then they will be that way.. Think the best of what they can offer you..

Remember, there are men and women with hearts of gold.. Just because you met with one asshole, doesn't mean every single of them is the same!

Offline...

For some reason, I don't feel like talking to people who always appear offline or is in invisible mode..

Rather.. They want to be "hidden" from everyone.. Thus, that's exactly how I'm gonna treat them.. "hidden"..

Nuff said~

Dreams

Dreams.. Dreams are a succession of images, sounds or emotions that pass through the mind during sleep.. The content and purpose of dreams are not fully understood, though they have been a topic of speculation and interest throughout recorded history..

Have you recently had a weird dream? Very weird but it seemed real at the same time?
This has to be one of the weirdest dream I've had over the last few months.. It feels as if the dream had actually happened.. But in the end, it's just a dream...

I'm a Gorilla =_=

taken from http://animalinyou.com/test.php
Gorillas are strong, unpolished individuals with a gruff exterior that conceals their soft and chewy center. They are capable, happy-go-lucky individuals with a disarming naivet. Maybe a little hairy with a tattoo or two too, they are unpretentious and engaging creatures who brighten everyone's day with their enthusiastically warm greetings. They pay little attention to their physical condition and can even be a bit of a slob. With this tendency to be untidy, a gorilla isn't one to recycle or pick up after itself.

Even with the gorilla's warmly gruff exterior there remains an underlying sense of menace that percolates throughout its personality. Though it is built for physical confrontation, it's difficult to imagine a gorilla actually inflicting bodily harm. However, when the gorilla or its family is threatened, the transgressor quickly realizes their mistake. Its body hair standing on end and large frame at full height, the gorilla will never back down from a fight. In a child-custody battle it's better to negotiate an up-front peace with a gorilla rather than endure a prolonged and bloody battle.

Gorillas are intelligent but not overly motivated. When young they avoid formal learning, and as an adult their intelligence manifests itself as street-smarts. They have the talent and problem-solving skills to be excellent mechanics, plumbers or repair people.

Their career, however, takes a backseat to the pursuit of recreational activity and they will rarely reach great heights in business. However, if they're lucky enough to find a job that incorporates fun and physical prowess - such as a personal trainer or professional wrestler - they can certainly rise to the top of their field.

Gorillas' appreciation for the good life puts them in good stead for careers in the service industry, including the hotel and restaurant businesses, and customers appreciate a gorilla's gruff but can-do attitude.

Gorillas are unmotivated by money, and they avoid strenuous physical exertion in favor of spending their leisure time at play. Drawn to social groups, the classic gorilla scene is a group of Hells Angels revving their bikes, mimicking a gorillalike chest pounding and roaring.

Ingenious!

This is really ingenious! I salute the student who made this essay..

If you're wondering what's the song, here it is.. Enjoy!