Monday, August 11, 2008

Love = Obsession?

Love Is As Much Of An Object As An Obsession, Everybody Wants It, Everybody Seeks It, But Few Ever Achieve It, Those Who Do Will Cherish It, Be Lost In It, And Among All, Never Forget It... - Curtis Judalet

Have you ever heard of this quote before? Is love really an obsession? When you love someone, are you obsessed with him/her? Perhaps.. Perhaps not.. Love never claims, it ever gives.. Love ever suffers, never resents nor revenges itself.. Don't ever say you love somebody and then change your mind.. Love isn't like picking what movie you want to watch.. Choosing someone to love is like choosing someone to be with.. Someone who would take care of you, vice versa.. Someone whom you want to grow old with.. Someone you cherish.. After all, being happily married is about falling in love over and over again.. The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart.. So, ask this to yourself, are you feeling with your hands? Or with your heart?

True happiness and a fullness of joy can be found only in the tender and intimate relationships of the family. However earnestly we may seek success and happiness outside the home through work, leisure activities, or large bank accounts, we will never be fully satisfied emotionally until we develop deep and loving relationships.. And inside the heart of each and every one of us there is a longing to be understood by someone who really cares.. When a person is understood, he or she can put up with almost anything in the world.. Do remember that if you can't even take care of yourself now, how are you supposed to take care of your future family? Hence, it's true that we need to focus on our career first.. Finishing our studies, achieving good results, get the best job possible.. When we've really gained the best option available, the time to settle down will come.. Sooner or later, right?.. For the time being, why not focus on our studies? :D

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
- Corithians


Faiz said...

Marriage >> couple? Discuss.

I agree, when you obsesses/loves with someone or something, either you take it or leave it.

Saying you love someone and then leave him/her half way, that is not love. That is half hearted.

K-rule said...

yo obsesses is a disease u cant live without it or ignore it sometimes it just a way of life

p/s:can teach me 2 make layouts?